Archive for August 2015

Monday, 10 August 2015
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3 Corrections for Indian Development

Hi readers,

I was thinking about a cycle that we human race are actually running. The culture cycle. In the early ages humans were barbarians hunting people, they started feeding animals and cultivating land. Normally started living in groups and made gods and build cultures. Then at some time interval we started fighting among ourselves for money, sex and pride. While world experienced its darkest times killing themselves and destroying everything, there came prophets and stronger religions who hold the civilized men together as a group. These religions set a thousand rules restricting its people from everything that can stop our race moving forward. From those period of history humans live restricting themselves from silly emotions and sinful practices. A calm and quiet era came into being. By that time the world population had spread enormously. After the X generation the world itself started thinking why should we limit ourselves. We humans made religion and we are experiencing wars and deaths because of it. So let's abort these rules and live free and limitless for a better society. The world is on its track running towards the next crisis to end up our race. There can be or cannot be prophets again. If we can't accept the prophets or the signs of future, then we will end up in extinction.
But today the only thing we are able to do is going with the flow. We should complete this cycle so that the next surprise will arrive faster. If we should run, we have to try getting in front. 

Why are we Indians slow in developing ourselves ??


 India the country of religious friendship, collaboration of cultures and land of peace should open up to see where we are now. We should try to look up from the sky and evaluate how much is the rating graph of Indian greatness elated. Probably 70 percent of Indian  population didn't know or don't want to look at it from that angle. Majority of our population still believe India is great and Indian population and culture is the best of all. The reason behind this thought is that they don't know how the other world or culture looks like or mostly they don't want to know. They just believe the repeated fact from ancient great India where innovations happened. Now look on to the world and see where India stands. After being ruled under foreigners and the corrupted politicians, we are still living in a poor country with half of its population still fighting for living basics. Still we don't know or we are not ready to see the absence of basic facilities. People sleeping in the streets and public stations, homes without  toilet and drinking water facility, people who can't even access medical aids etc. are some of those.

                                   Now this is the right time to realize why this thing happened for our country.
:-)  Our country aimed on shorter plans and faster results other than longer plans and better results.

:-) Influence of morality, caste system and religious conflicts stood as an obstruction for development plans.

 :-) Citizens asked their god why you give me this much less money for my goods and never questioned the government for that.

 :-) The culture of fear, patience and obedience made us weak and made us slow while competing with the world.

 :-) Schools generated a generation of emotional idiots and our movies supported them with heroes having emotions and values.


Three things should get corrected immediately in our society. Then only we feel ourselves strong enough to compete the world. These corrections are not small and simple, they are longer and hard to work out. Because we need to repair minds not physical system. If we can succeed in creating fresh new minds then the physical systems will automatically get updated and get ready for the race. The corrections I believe to change India are

1. Believe you itself is God


          The over influence of god thing for each and everything. In south India there exist a tourist religious sacred hill destination named 'Sabarimala'.
Towards the temple at its topmost part there is mighty 18 steps entry made of gold. For all who want to meet their god they should read a big word written  in front of temple. " TATWAMASI " means ' Its you ' . Everyone searching for god should read it from the eighteenth step of holiness and should realize ' God stays within ourselves '. Your ability, talent, knowledge, strength, energy, etc is what defines you. Creating, loving, cultivating and protecting them can make us realize the god in our inner selves. We should train our mind to stay awake and find the god in ourselves.

The god thought will automatically improve our confidence. A new light of hope comes and improves our ability. In rural areas people used to leave their problems for god to solve and spent their money for poojai. Giving the problem a better space and planning solving strategy shows the better part of god inside you.

2. Avoid fear; Practice Gentleness


             We should study how to avoid fear and how not to make someone fear. It is our trend and a part of life of practicing kids fear to do something. The worst and basics of fear practicing starts when the baby refuse to eat food. Mom will say " I will call police; he will come and slap you with his rod ". There public servants and protectors become frightening fear making idols. Thus every kid believes police as a matter of fear making other than feeling secured.

The next is creating fear of teachers. Teacher is also a public servant we fear from primary schools. Teachers get inbuilt with fear making features automatically as a part of the society which makes our kids to fear them than respecting them. Now at the present situation we are unreasonably feared of everything around us. So because of this fear what happen was

 :-)  It creates lack of confidence and demotivate ourselves from every open situation.

 :-)  So because we practice fear we can't work out with a new idea, so that India will stay as the biggest employees supplying country in future and Indians will feel great about that too..

 :-)  Even we feel it feared to talk and interact with a new group.

:-) Our relations get weaker and weaker because we fear the result and optimistic energy works.

                       Our growth and our country's welfare depends upon how our kids are getting treated. So handling them with care can make the change. Then you will be murmuring some questions and doubts inside. Then how the children should be taught and  brought up.  We should practice them to behave gentle. It is an art of behaving for occasions or else an art of practicing acting. It starts from putting the cover of toffees in the waste basket, eating everything in the plate, cleanliness, punctuality, honesty etc. It can lead our future into the right way. Avoiding foolish emotions are also a part of being gentle. A gentle man always keep his word, whatever the emotional situation around him pressurizes the most. This quality in every future Indian helps in creating a anti-corruption based Indian society.

                  When we think about European culture, we usually make it a bad outlook with seductive ladies and sexy costumes. But we always forget to notice something else. Their way of behavior or gentleness. The quality that made the world under them for centuries. If a girl with a sexy costume is walking alone in some public area. Think what will happen if it is India and think what will happen if it is  Europe. The gentleness they practice will allow her to walk free. So we need to think about being gentle and training kids. Let's hope for a better future.

3. Stay connected with the world


                     Now the modern world is more transparent and interconnected with the ultra mechanism internet. We are able to find a new trend, a new song from some part of the world, can buy a new gadget from some part, can prepare new foods and can experience the world by sitting on your chair. But most of us do something really similar and unproductive. We use to chat in our smaller circles, find websites that provide local cinemas, and most importantly watch porn. World is bigger and much bigger outside; and we miss our chance to touch this wonderful world. We can write, dance, create, draw, paint, build etc.. with the technology in our fingertips. We can share them, market them, purchase them, and either support them.
We can't change the whole India. But we can try changing our minds and thoughts. That can 
later lead our country into greatness. The greatness of ancient ages. There is a chance for sure.

Wednesday, 5 August 2015
| 05:16 | 1 Comment

Pride

This extract from my college time blog collection was an upshot of new dissenting thoughts that received much self-appreciation from inner self. Unfortunately, I found trouble in concluding due to its uncertainness nature of unending doubts generation. After past few years of absurd self-analysis, universal power brought me the answers for my queries on the miraculously confusing topic ‘Pride.’  

(What does Pride refers to actually?
Pride is a rich feeling of confidence someone poses when they feel themselves securely surefooted. In other words it is a feeling sprang up from an over confident mind.
Then why bible refers pride as basic sin that can redirect into major sins??
We engineers or engineering students are strictly instructed to poses high level of confidence while attending an interview or while working on a project. There are hundreds of books written about the importance of working with confidence. There are great authors, experts who deliver their experience and motivate us to improve our level of confidence. If confidence induce pride then how it ameliorate my state of being. Then what could be the intentions behind instructing us to practise something that can be a cause for basic sin. Confidence does create pride. )

It was confusing why sister Placid taught pride as first sin. She was making us prepare for our Holy Communion ceremony. Among those kids, I was been the active. Sisters of our convent possessed a greater affection towards me and my cousin Amal just because, late sister Anansiamma( their superior sister) were our grand aunt. So because we got a better position amongst kids, we utilized that opportunity to ask doubts and questions from everything taught. From those days, like the bouncing ball, my doubts never came to an end, they started bouncing repeatedly on its answers. I wanted to find the final solution for each and every doubt budded inside. That character as a habit, grew up gradually.

     Throughout the times of studies, my behaviour of unending doubts gained me too much of attention in fixing me a heroic image among friends. I started enjoying its taste as my character added spectacular diversions to it. Sometimes these doubts gave me enough problems and made me the disturbing piece among the whole. Even after class sessions, apart from disturbing teachers these doubts subsequently initiated in disturbing my inner self vigorously. These made me understand about the importance of self-sufficiency that initiated me in finding answers. Within short time I found myself becoming a hero with variety of concepts and creative thinking threads. With the blessing of almighty god, everything resulted at success. When everything appeared favourable, without my personal sense of realisation, negative energy started immersing its deep roots in me. Likewise sister Placid taught ' dirty hands of Satan with his malignant hands in dark shade programmed for mortifying good' caught me. Without my conscious awareness, pride filled my inner cup with arrogance. When pride started outgrowth, my belief in god automatically vacillated.

My savvy mind started thinking ' How can we include pride among the sins '. A confidential person will have pride for sure. My personal explanation was that, ‘pride should be considered as the magnified form of confidence. A successful person with talented brain will surely get praised for his achievements. And when the surroundings praise him for what he is, natural production of pride starts flowing. It’s a matter of his excellence and confidence. 

I tried to implement this theory with my inner self and fixed fight for so long. Long nights I repeatedly tried to prove it. Inner fight became tight and finally I ended up shrieking because it was really disturbing me even throughout sleeping. Those days made me write the above paragraph without completing my doubts. Finally I said. "Okay! Let's end this. It’s paining and is nixing me from sleep ". 

Then everything went down quiet. But I started tasting the trauma of failure. Everything went wrong and that nosedive persecuted. Everything I believed I can, changed itself into nugatory attempts. I found difficulty in working with every smaller plans I wanted to. It was late when I realized that the problems approached were practical explanations intentionally intended to clear my doubts. Every single thing believed to be won ended up in failure. Consequently these failures fixed me with daily boozing and anarchical smoking for staying positive. Accompanying the addictive habits laziness inhabited me abscising everything I have to make me the usual one. I remember the days I practiced martial arts watching movies, and my confidence grew up into such a level that I felt it able to lift some object without touching it. 
Such kind of a confident person switched into foolish, lazy loser. Realization struck after analysing past incidents that made me down. That scourge I got from the true god trounce me down towards ground acknowledging myself as his damn simple creature. 


                                      I don't know why pride is considered as a sin, but I do understood one thing. 'IF YOU HAVE IT, IT WILL DESTROY YOU'.